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7 Reasons You are Stuck in a Toxic Work Environment

7 Reasons You are Stuck in a Toxic Work Environment

Let’s imagine that you find yourself in a toxic work situation.  Maybe your coworkers are ridiculously difficult, or your department is managed by a certifiable jerk.  Whatever the reason, your work life is miserable.  Misery at work typically translates to misery at home because the job sucks all the brain energy from your head while thinking about all the bad things that are brewing back at the office. Your muscles and joints are tense most of the time as a result of the unending stress. Sunday afternoon and evenings are spent getting mentally prepared for Monday’s return to battle.

Why do you put up with this kind of non-sense? As my friend, Dr. Gary Namie, co-founder of the Workplace Bullying Institute, says, “work shouldn’t hurt.”  Really, is that news to you? Work should not suck the life out of you. It should be a time when you provide a service and in return receive competitive compensation with maybe some fun and enjoyment periodically. Realizing no workplace will be perfect, the leadership should keep all the incivility to a minimum and expel the certifiable jerks and bossholes.

So why do you put up with this kind of environment?  It’s because most Americans are tied down to one, two, three, or all seven of the following:

  • A big house with a big mortgage
  • Car payments on the three nice cars sitting in your driveway
  • Utility payments to heat and cool that big house
  • Hefty tuition payments for that expensive private education for your kids
  • Daycare expenses so both marriage partners can be abused during the day at work
  • Extravagant vacations where cell phones don’t work so you can get at least one week per year away from the rat race
  • A cleaning service to maintain your home because you are never there to do it yourself since you work 70 hours/week

Your stuck in a bad job because you need a paycheck and your savings account cannot handle the possibility of employment readjustment without a steady income.Unfortunately, your bosshole probably knows this and uses it to his advantage.

In the whole scheme of life, does this make sense? You are working in a job that makes you sick, just to pay for temporary pleasures you cannot enjoy because your mind is parked at a toxic office. Do you need to make some changes?

Kevin Kennemer is founder of The People Group based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Kevin is driven by his passion for company owners and their need to earn a profit, employees’ desire for a positive and fulfilling work experience, and the community that benefits when both groups do well.

1 Comment

  1. connect2hcb 2 years ago

    Very well said. The phrase “certifiable jerk” truly reflects one of the major reason for toxic work situation in most cases. The fact is that such kind of people are at all levels in an organization and are well known to those who matter. Again, ironically in most toxic work situations those who matter are themselves such kind of people. Some typical characteristics of such people include writing flaming/funny emails, being highly conscious of their grade/designation, holding behind the back discussions, shirking ownership and forcing their work on others, and staying quiet and ignoring cases of toxic behaviors at work. If one has to deal with a “certifiable jerk”, it should simply be seen as a case of having extremely bad luck.

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